There are several different
ways to count in a song.
For
a ballad, a slow four count, “1, 2, 3, 4” works perfectly.
For
a swing tune, the tradition is, “1, snap, 2, snap, 1, 2/snap,
3, 4/snap”.
For
a waltz, emphasis is one the one so you count “1, 2, 3, 1, 2,
3”.
In general, the count should
sound like you want the rhythm to sound.
To get the tempo going, listen to
the song in your head, maybe hum it a little. It’s best to hear
the chorus or a bridge and not the very beginning of the song. When you
get the feeling of the beat firmly into your foot, then start to think
of counting.
It is so important to be able to
count the tempo accurately. It takes practice so don’t wait until
the day of the show to work on it. If you’ve started into the song
and feel like the tempo is a little too fast or too slow, use your body
language to tell the band to pick it up or slow it down a bit. If the
tempo is way out of whack, if you can live with it, do so; it’s
much more professional. If not, stop the song and start again but only
as a last resort!